I learned a new term awhile back. It is a cooking term, but I find it applies to all of life - at least for me, it does. Genius is a feat of association. ::big Barney Fife sniff::
The term is mis-en-place. It's French, and pronounced MEEZ-ahn-plahs. It means "everything in its place beforehand". Before you cook - you first shop, gather your ingredients, chop and dice and measure and sift and make sure you have all tools you need...
...all before beginning to cook. It's the work before the work.
See, if there is one thing I have learned in my life, one idea, other than the fathomless grace of God, that has given me profound insight, it is this: there's the work before the work, then there's the work, then there's the work after the work. Every single job you do, large or small, involves these three phases. In order to truly attain excellence, you have to take all three into consideration and planning. And if you want to rock this thing called "life"...learn to love (or at least have a platonic relationship with) all three phases of the work. Each part of a project, big or small - the before, the during, and the after - has its charm, if you have a vivid imagination.
So many people I know will, for example, wash clothes, but the clothes don't get put away, or don't get ironed. In other words, they may be clean, but they are not "wear ready". (I've done it. When I point a finger, three more are pointing back at me. I accept this.) Or folks may wash their clothes, but don't go in beforehand and sort them properly. (Ahem. Yeah. Me, too.)
In my world, a meal is not complete until the sinks are cleared. And in my world, I do not like to begin to cook unless sinks and surfaces are clean and ready, and ingredients on hand. This isn't to say I never have a cluttered kitchen or full sinks, I do. Often enough. But it never feels right or normal to me. And it shouldn't. Who wants to live that way? Unless there are very mitigating circumstances? Which brings me back to the first question: who wants to live that way?
My husband has always called mis-en-place "approach to task". I prefer mis-en-place because it's French. Anything French has to be way better - even their superiority complex is better than ours.
"Going along to get along" rates lower and lower on my happiness scale, the older I get. In fact, going along to get along brings a whole lot of unnecessary stress. I love me some mis-en-place. I love approaching each new day, or approaching my work, whatever that may be, with tranquility and a sense of having been prepared. Which means whatever the last thing it was I worked on? It needs to be completely finished and all tools put back in place for the next time I need to pull them out. This pretty much implies that all of life is spent preparing for the work, then doing the work, then tying up the loose ends after the work.
Work is life.
"Six days shalt thou labor and do all thy ________ " (that blank gets filled with the word "WORK")
I just spent a couple of hours in my closet today, doing mis-en-place. I can't consider myself done until the linen pants get their fastener sewed back on, and the cuffs of my brown trousers get cleaned (what is all that, in there? I am shaking my head over it...how do I manage it?) and the sleeves in a certain dress have to be altered. Then, and only then, is the job done. My wardrobe will be ready for what lies ahead of me this year - I will have done the mis-en-place. Hopefully getting dressed, and dressed well, will be a no-brainer.
After I find me some white skinny jeans. I shall tell The Preacher, "I'm not shopping. I'm mis-en-place-ing."
Roasted Cauliflower Soup Recipe - Easy, Feeds a Crowd
If you, like me, are trying to eat more veggies, or if you, unlike me, want to cut back on carbs, you may want to check into cauliflower soup, as opposed to potato soup. I made some today, it turned out well, and here's how it was done:
Ingredients: two heads of cauliflower (I used 1 1/2), an onion, some carrots, a stalk of celery, 32 ounces of chicken broth (lower sodium), a stick of butter, some half and half, some flour (you could forego making the roux completely, if gluten is an issue)
dice about a half cup of carrots, the celery stalk, and the onion. Put it all in a colorful bowl for it's photo shoot, because you are a goober-blogger-geek. Own it. Nod your head with me and say, "I. Am. That. Girl."
Rough chop your cauliflower...
sweat and simmer your diced stuff, in 1/2 a stick of butter, until it seems just right, or five minutes, whichever comes first
Add your cauliflower, turn the heat back to low, pop a lid on all of it, and heat through for about ten minutes, stirring occasionally, while singing a country music song - preferably "Makes Me Wanna Take a Back Road". Don't forget to dance, too.
Use the other half of your one stick of butter for your roux. Melt it and toss in the flour. I usually do a "one for one"...one TB flour per one TB of butter, so in this case, 4 TB flour. Whisk it into the melted butter, and then add about 2 cups of half and half. Whisk until it becomes thick and dreamy.
Turn the heat back to low, and let it sit for a bit, because...
...you gotta add your 24-32 ounces of chicken stock to your veggies. Simmer for 10-15 minutes with the lid on.
After you've simmered the veggies, add your roux and stir it in. This smells heavenly.
Take a (high powered) stick blender to the whole thing, and puree it to your liking. If you don't have a stick blender that can do the job, you'll have to pour about forty batches (a little at a time) into your regular blender and puree it.
Season with coarse salt, fresh ground pepper, and finely chopped parsley.
Serve with lots of bread and a big ol' salad, for a meatless meal. Otherwise, use this as a first course soup for steak or roast - something beef, because chicken or fish would be too much "white" for dinner, in my world.
So, so good!
Ingredients: two heads of cauliflower (I used 1 1/2), an onion, some carrots, a stalk of celery, 32 ounces of chicken broth (lower sodium), a stick of butter, some half and half, some flour (you could forego making the roux completely, if gluten is an issue)
dice about a half cup of carrots, the celery stalk, and the onion. Put it all in a colorful bowl for it's photo shoot, because you are a goober-blogger-geek. Own it. Nod your head with me and say, "I. Am. That. Girl."
Rough chop your cauliflower...
sweat and simmer your diced stuff, in 1/2 a stick of butter, until it seems just right, or five minutes, whichever comes first
Add your cauliflower, turn the heat back to low, pop a lid on all of it, and heat through for about ten minutes, stirring occasionally, while singing a country music song - preferably "Makes Me Wanna Take a Back Road". Don't forget to dance, too.
Use the other half of your one stick of butter for your roux. Melt it and toss in the flour. I usually do a "one for one"...one TB flour per one TB of butter, so in this case, 4 TB flour. Whisk it into the melted butter, and then add about 2 cups of half and half. Whisk until it becomes thick and dreamy.
Turn the heat back to low, and let it sit for a bit, because...
...you gotta add your 24-32 ounces of chicken stock to your veggies. Simmer for 10-15 minutes with the lid on.
After you've simmered the veggies, add your roux and stir it in. This smells heavenly.
Take a (high powered) stick blender to the whole thing, and puree it to your liking. If you don't have a stick blender that can do the job, you'll have to pour about forty batches (a little at a time) into your regular blender and puree it.
Season with coarse salt, fresh ground pepper, and finely chopped parsley.
Serve with lots of bread and a big ol' salad, for a meatless meal. Otherwise, use this as a first course soup for steak or roast - something beef, because chicken or fish would be too much "white" for dinner, in my world.
So, so good!
Mixed Media Art
~acrylics, inks, gesso, matte gel medium, papers, found objects
...a two-page spread, in an altered book I am working on...the right side will contain a quote about Spring, from one of CS Lewis' Narnia series. The plan (for now - it could change) is to add more texture and layers on the left (using gesso and inks), and then use a sepia ink to hand-write the quote across the upper third of the right-hand page (another option would be to print it out on parchment paper, as another layering piece, and use a Remington font I've recently fallen in love with) and lastly, I will paint some graphic looking flowers in the middle, springing up from the green.
I have to say this: I was doing this mixed-media collage stuff way before it was cool. I did this stuff back in the '90's, and it was far enough ahead of the times that I stopped - because I didn't see anything else quite like what I was doing, and that made me feel as though I was somehow "wrong". Someday, I will learn to follow my instincts.
This is my first "big" mixed media project since those days (I've been getting comfortable with mixed media on scrap watercolor papers and these teeny tiny canvases I have, called "ATC's" - or, Artist Trading Cards), so I am absolutely certain I will look back at this picture and cringe, in years to come. Actually, I will look back at it and feel happy, because I love to see a record of growth and progress, and am completely unafraid to share my chronicle of humble beginnings with the world.
In the future? I want to do some simple color studies on small square canvases...texture-y, hombre'd delicious color studies, going from light to dark, top to bottom, and utilizing mixed medias. Once I get comfortable with that, and get my bearings with color and texture, I then want to paint my version of a rainbow, no negative space, filling the canvas, in mixed media - to represent the Grace of the Gospel (Biblically, many colors represent grace and favor), and, at the very bottom, as an inset in whatever mat I will use to frame the painting, there will be a Scripture from Revelations about the rainbow that surrounds the throne of God.
And since my reach must always exceed my grasp, I want it all to be beautiful.
If you aren't creating something, you are not going to be completely satisfied. What are you doing to image-bear the Creator? Try mixed-media art...it is so forgiving, and unintimidating. Perfect for beginners, like me.
25 Turned 19 Today
My baby turned 19 today. And we had 14 in the house for lunch...grilling burgers and hotdogs after church. Then I lit 19 candles on 24 cupcakes, all in the shape of a basketball, and we sang "Happy Birthday"....
I am having a hard time believing that this upcoming year will be the last year...ever...that I can say I am the mother of a teenager. I remember the baby and toddler stage lasting so long, or so it seemed. Between all four kids, I remember feeling like I'd been changing diapers forever.
Forever goes by so fast.
I remember feeling like I'd been stuck in phonics-hell "forever". I loved finally getting out of grunting long and short vowel sounds, for years. Then, it seemed like I taught elementary school "forever".
Then high school.
And here I am today - I have been a mom to teenagers since the dawn of this millenium. Feels like "forever".
Yet this year...2012...marks the end of my home school teaching career, and the end of being a mom to teenagers. Next year, my baby will turn 20. How does that happen? I. Can't. Stand. It.
I so love this boy. He is freakishly tall for this family, and hilariously funny, and smart as they get, and the biggest brat you ever met, should you have the misfortune of seeing him in one of his bratty moments. But there is something of greatness in this boy. Grace will accomplish, in his life, what the law could never do. The Gospel will be both his undoing and his best doing.
And as his mother...I wait. I wait on the Lord, I hope in the Lord, and no one who does that is ever made ashamed. No regrets!
My son...he's the real deal. A man with the call to preach on his life. I'll wait to see what he does with it.
Happy Birthday, son! May your Basketball bring the Spiritual Harvest you dreamed of as a little boy, when your heart was still so tender and you loved Jesus with such abandon. That was the real you. I see glimpses of that young man now and then....and I am moved upon by the very presence of God when I see it.
His plans for you are good, boy!
Love,
Mom
I am having a hard time believing that this upcoming year will be the last year...ever...that I can say I am the mother of a teenager. I remember the baby and toddler stage lasting so long, or so it seemed. Between all four kids, I remember feeling like I'd been changing diapers forever.
Forever goes by so fast.
I remember feeling like I'd been stuck in phonics-hell "forever". I loved finally getting out of grunting long and short vowel sounds, for years. Then, it seemed like I taught elementary school "forever".
Then high school.
And here I am today - I have been a mom to teenagers since the dawn of this millenium. Feels like "forever".
Yet this year...2012...marks the end of my home school teaching career, and the end of being a mom to teenagers. Next year, my baby will turn 20. How does that happen? I. Can't. Stand. It.
I so love this boy. He is freakishly tall for this family, and hilariously funny, and smart as they get, and the biggest brat you ever met, should you have the misfortune of seeing him in one of his bratty moments. But there is something of greatness in this boy. Grace will accomplish, in his life, what the law could never do. The Gospel will be both his undoing and his best doing.
And as his mother...I wait. I wait on the Lord, I hope in the Lord, and no one who does that is ever made ashamed. No regrets!
My son...he's the real deal. A man with the call to preach on his life. I'll wait to see what he does with it.
Happy Birthday, son! May your Basketball bring the Spiritual Harvest you dreamed of as a little boy, when your heart was still so tender and you loved Jesus with such abandon. That was the real you. I see glimpses of that young man now and then....and I am moved upon by the very presence of God when I see it.
His plans for you are good, boy!
Love,
Mom
Basketball and Senior Day - Last Home Game
"Senior player number 25, Isaac Atchley..."
"...his parents, Tim and Sheila Atchley..."
"...his favorite Scripture is Phillippians 4:13..." (a teary moment, there...)
"...his favorite memories are all the stories of Coach Ritchie and his Sleep Number Bed!" (You'd have to hear these in person to "get this one"...)
"...he will be playing this fall for Johnson University, and in 5 years sees himself wherever God wants him to be." (Does my face even convey how I am feeling? I didn't know how he'd answer that question. My heart was full. He's been such a brat, but my mother's heart was bursting with pride, nonetheless.)
In case you'd like a little visual hint on how the ensuing game went...
Oh my baby. Oh my heart. Eye on the Prize, son...eye on the prize. Keep your focus and keep your head and keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life.
It was worth it all. I am proud.
I cannot type anymore, friends. The tears are flooding my vision and the keyboard. Who can know how hard this journey was, and what this means to The Preacher and I? Who can know, but The Preacher and I, our family and our church family?
Journal Page
Sorry about the terrible photography. This was a "snap the picture and throw it up on my blog" sort of thing...
This is a page out of my "art journal" - - meaning: I use colored ink and experiment with Zentangles and write original poetry and play with whimsical, hand-written graphic fonts. (The above font is called "French Manicure". I know. I bought a book on hand-written fonts. And I ramble, but that's okay. Just flow with me ...after all, you are here, and you gotta play the hand you're dealt. And I'm dealin'.)
It says:
"...in a religious culture of artificial, tightly controlled environments, I am a glad oddity - a seemingly irresponsible saint, out of reach of religious manipulation, and in need of no justification beyond what is already mine through Christ Jesus..."
I know, right? I'm irrepressible. I'm becoming ridiculously free. The weird thing is, the free-er I get, the more I want to love and serve and obey.
I think of it like I do my marriage. I know Tim loves me. I mean...I know. The man is crazy for me. He is a card carrying member of the "I Heart Sheila" club...and it has a membership of one. He laughs at all my jokes, and still chases me around after 25 years and 10 pounds and 2 grandchildren.
And do you know what? It does not make me want to "get away" with a thing. It doesn't make me lazy. It doesn't make me an apathetic wife.
Sort of makes me want to love him more.
Grace, grace, grace.
Learn it. Grow in it.
The Almost-Spring Garden
...my patch of lettuce...I'm using the left corner as a daylily "nursery". See them coming up? I put the "babies" there last fall, until I can decide where their particular color needs to live, permanently.
Still haven't made up my mind.
Here's to warmer weather, and a very, very sore back!
Still haven't made up my mind.
Here's to warmer weather, and a very, very sore back!
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